The Most Important Lesson?
ResentfulAnd I came across an interesting question. It could have elicited a quick and shallow response... but I'm seriously sleep deprived right now haha. And that means I got THINKING (terrible terrible reaction, when the filter from brain to mouth is seriously hindered!).
What's the most important lesson you’ve learned from your exes?
I was literally overwhelmed by an avalanche of recent emotions towards my recent ex. The predominant emotions? Anger. Disappointment. Rage (really). Disgust. No respect. To begin with, at least.
But I thought of my other exes, and how the wounds have healed over time... some more or less than others. So my answer was:
1. Don't take the degradation and disrespect for a second, because if you let it start... it won't stop.
2. People don't change. They can adapt, and conceal flaws and traits or problems... but they will never change, for you or anyone else.
3. Stop being afraid to love. You're going to lose your heart and get hurt anyway. So love as hard as you can, and keep your head held high.
Number 3 reminded me very strongly of a piece I wrote in grade eleven, after dating Paul (who I am now very close friends with, thankfully. he's a great and amazing person). I don't normally like my writing... but this piece is always on my mind.
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I'm NOT sure where I'm going with this.
Mini life update: love life improvement, got fucked over so there's no job, still can't afford school for September, and the family is dissolving yet again. just that little bit more than we can handle, right? that's how life goes.
Have a good one, folks.
~ Ashley
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♥ They say time heals all wounds... what really heals those wounds is love. ♥
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Revenge, like gazpacho soup, is best served cold, percise, and merciless.
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I may not be smart, but I aint dumb
I don't check for under 2 weeks and I get this:
49 deviations.
13 messages.
Really. That's too many.
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Bring your ass over here, 'cause I found this wicked awesome tree that you should pose in XD
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